When someone need to re-home a pet

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My dog’s previous owner gave me a gift

“He was probably abused.”

“His owners gave him up. who would do such a thing?”

These are the assumptions I hear people making about their “rescued” pets. I get it, it makes us feel good if we believe we saved an animal from harm.

My pet dog is not a rescue dog. I adopted him directly from his previous owner. Unlike some pet dog owners, I’m fortunate to know my dog’s history.

Ace was from an accidental “farm litter” near a small town in Minnesota. His previous owner was a single mommy and got Ace as a puppy for her teenage daughter, she said. I’m assuming the puppies were free. She did not charge me anything to adopt him a year later, even though I used her $50 and even though I’m sure she could’ve used the money.

Ace had never been walked, his previous owner told me when I first met my future dog. She also said Ace spent a lot of of his time in his kennel during the day while she was at work as well as in the evenings when he would just get too annoying. I couldn’t blame her. Ace was pretty obnoxious at the time, showing off his worst behavior when I met him – grabbing a towel, licking the cat in the face and climbing all over the couch and my lap. She did not need to tell me he didn’t get any exercise or that he had no concept of “sit” or “stay” or “come.”

How dreadful that my pet dog spent his first 12 months living that way, I could’ve said. how sad that someone would re-home a pet after a year.

But that’s not how I see it.

Ace’s previous owner gave me a gift, and I am forever grateful to her. She gave a homeless farm mutt a warm, safe place to crash for a year and then helped him on his way. She may have prevented him from entering a shelter two times – when she initially adopted him and again when she re-homed him herself.

Ace’s previous owner supplied my future pet dog with basic vet care by getting him neutered and vaccinated at the affordable spay/neuter clinic about 45 miles away. She took the time to kennel train and potty train him.

My future pet dog got to grow up around a cat and another dog, and he pertained to me well socialized. I have yet to meet another pet dog as tolerant of other family pets as Ace.

We do not know the details

When I see or hear about someone re-homing or surrendering a pet, I do not respond with judgement. I think of Ace’s previous owner and what a great person she was and I try to be understanding. I’m sure she has adopted another pet dog considering that that day in 2007, and I’m sure that pet dog is very loved.

Surrendering a pet is not an easy choice, and these decisions are not made overnight. When I hear that someone has to give up a cat because he is moving, I do not say, “Well, didn’t you know you would be moving?” Instead, I try to imagine the tough situation that person need to be facing. I just moved across the country with three animals, and they were absolutely a huge burden.

When we hear about someone surrendering a pet, we tend to respond with “How could they?” maybe we must say “Is there anything I can do to help?”

What do the rest of you think would be the proper thing to say to someone who is re-homing a loved pet?


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