How Cats show Affection
Cats have a reputation of being aloof, but nothing could be even more from the truth. Cats express affection for humans and for each other in a multitude of ways. Each cat is an individual, so not all cats will show affection in quite the same way, but there are some common ways how cats show they love you.
Bunting
When a cat rubs her face against you or head butts you, she leaves her scent on you. Cats have scent glands on the side of their cheeks. The pheromones located in those glands are associated with being friendly. In essence, your cat is performing a scent exchange with you. Ruby is a master at this: she’ll come up on my lap and rub her head against my chin or my forehead. She gets pretty carried away with this sometimes, chirping and purring at the same time.
Purring
Purring is a complex expression. even though cats do purr when they’re content, purring can also be a sign of stress. Cats also purr when frightened or injured. In these situations, purring appears to function as a self-soothing mechanism. If your cat is purring while curled up in your lap or near you, chances are she’s purring because she’s content.
Kneading
Also affectionately known as “making biscuits,” kneading behavior goes back to your cat’s kittenhood. kittens knead their mothers to stimulate the release of milk during nursing. many cats display this behavior into adulthood, and it’s a sign that your cat is content and relaxed. Some cats are so unwinded while they’re kneading, they even drool – something I like to call a “happy drooler.”
Slow Blink
Jackson Galaxy calls the slow blink the “cat I love you.” This behavior was first identified by Anitra Frazier, the author of The natural Cat. When your cat blinks at you like this, it’s a sign that she’s unwinded and comfortable. try blinking back at her to return the favor.
Bringing you gifts
Even if your mighty hunter is an indoor cat, he may still share his “prey” with you by bringing you toys, bugs, or anything else he may have caught.
Tail language
The tail is an important part of a cat’s body language. If your cat’s tail is straight up in the air with a little curve at the top, it means she’s happy and confident. Some cats will give a little flick of the curled part of the tail as a greeting. Allegra and Ruby both do this, and I adore being welcomed home like this.
Allogrooming
Allogrooming (two cats grooming each other) tends to happen many frequently among cats who are related, or cats who get along very well. This is thought to be a way cats show affection to each other. It also creates a communal scent. If your cat grooms you, it’s his way of showing you that you’re part of the family.
Sleeping
Cats spend an average of 16 hours a day sleeping. since cats are at their many vulnerable during sleep, the places they seek out for sleeping, and the position they sleep in, are an indicator of how much your cat trusts you. choosing your lap as a favorite sleeping spot is a loving compliment.
How do your cats show affection?
Ingrid King
Table of Contents
Bunting
Purring
Kneading
Slow Blink
Bringing you gifts
Tail language
Allogrooming
Sleeping
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33 comments on how Cats show Affection
Tom says:
November 4, 2018 at 11:43 pm
I have 2 ferel kittens a brother and sister who are about 4 months old. The brother C B (short for chatterbox) recently has begun to show me affection. In return he loves me to rub around his ears and neck. sister Mute still isn’t ready to be touched by me. I can see different things she recently started doing that tells me she is getting closer to give and receive some kitten affection.
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Ingrid says:
November 5, 2018 at 6:14 am
It’s so gratifying when cats start to trust you. love the name Chatterbox!
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Louise says:
April 23, 2018 at 8:54 pm
My tortie Natasha talks to me…little chirpy sounds. She also ends up in whatever room I happen to be in.
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Ingrid says:
April 24, 2018 at 5:46 am
I love that chirpy sound. Allegra makes it, too.
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Lilli Hawks says:
April 10, 2017 at 9:38 pm
My cat Rosethorn (or Rosy for short) always loves on me whenever I’m alone and our other cat isn’t around. sometimes she will wake me up at night because I wasn’t home to see her that day. and she doesn’t act that way around any of my family members. She does many the things discussed up there but I want to know how I can return her affection because I feel like she thinks I like our other cat Jinxclaw (Jinx) more than her.
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teresa says:
November 25, 2016 at 11:52 pm
What is with this ” soft bite and hold”? never puncturing the skin but justnullnull